I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to fear all intimacy, mental and physical, and
allow that experience of fear to accumulate and grow to such an
extent where I cannot face that which I fear at all and instead
completely shut down.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to fear being self-intimate and self-honest, as I
have been afraid that what I find within myself is something “wrong”,
“dirty” and “evil”.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to believe that it is possible for me to be evil
without my own acceptance and allowance.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to cover up what I have accepted and allowed
myself to become with lies, definitions and justifications, and that
I have believed these lies, definitions and justifications, not
realizing I am doing it because I fear myself.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to not realize I fear myself.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to blame my negative experience of life on others
as I have believed the world is “untrustworthy”, “cruel” and
“unjust”, not realizing all of my negative experiences are a
manifestation of the fear of self that I create myself.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to not carry my responsibility over my own
experience as I have blamed it on others.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to believe my experience of fear, feeding and
growing it bigger as I have accepted and allowed myself to filter all
information I receive in a way that supports my belief.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to not realize it is not “the others” that are
bringing me down but that it is myself, and that as I believe my experience as
emotions, feelings, fears, desires, thoughts and moods unquestioned,
I act against myself by not actually looking at and listening to
myself. I now see and realize that as I believe an experience
unquestioned, I give my responsibility over my experience to the
experience itself, and if energy “takes the wheel” it only leads
to more and bigger energy, until no more/bigger can be attained and
the experience crashes. I forgive myself that I have accepted and
allowed myself to give away the control of myself to energy, not
realizing I am only hurting myself.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to hurt myself by not carrying my responsibility
over my experience.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to define and separate people into imaginary
groups that represent polarities, as I have feared that which was
alien and new to me and decided to stand separate from it.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to become the opposite of that which I perceived
to be alien and thus separate from me, within that act believing that
if I can't/won't/don't want to be something, I have to be it's
opposite.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to believe that polarities ought to exist, and
that I ought to “fill my spot” in order to “balance” a social
setting, not realizing I am following a pattern that I and everyone
else was preprogrammed to act out.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to not realize I am in fact one with and equal to
everything, and that separation is merely my own creation that ceases
to exist when and as I stop believing in it.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to fear the unknown within a new situation,
actually being afraid of myself as I have been unsure of how (and if)
I would be/act/survive within a situation I have never faced before.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to refuse taking part in an activity that I
perceived to be “too much” or “overwhelming”, not realizing I
simply didn't understand the activity and its point.
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to not communicate the fact that I didn't
understand the activity as I was afraid of the unknown (= ultimately
afraid of myself).
I forgive myself that I have accepted
and allowed myself to perceive the activity as “aggressive” and
react by withdrawing, as aggression was another thing I did not
understand and trust myself to be able to face.
EDIT: A key point I'm realizing here is the fact that the fear of intimacy has actually been built upon fear of the unknown. Within the kissing tag memory I see that I did not understand kissing or boys or what the friction between boys and girls was about, that I simply did not know and understand, and within the fear of the unknown I did not trust myself to be able to face the unknown, as I could not look at myself and stand within myself to see whether or not I was able to face the unknown because I was afraid to look at myself and stand within myself. Thus all of the fear of intimacy has been based on fear of the unknown, as later I did not understand sex or relationships or even basic communication, and it all comes down to fear of myself.
EDIT: A key point I'm realizing here is the fact that the fear of intimacy has actually been built upon fear of the unknown. Within the kissing tag memory I see that I did not understand kissing or boys or what the friction between boys and girls was about, that I simply did not know and understand, and within the fear of the unknown I did not trust myself to be able to face the unknown, as I could not look at myself and stand within myself to see whether or not I was able to face the unknown because I was afraid to look at myself and stand within myself. Thus all of the fear of intimacy has been based on fear of the unknown, as later I did not understand sex or relationships or even basic communication, and it all comes down to fear of myself.
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